What on earth did you get an MBE for? Does it stand for massive bell end? The problem with men is that they're such perverts they'll see sexuality in anything, my best job was when I worked for an interiors company and all my male colleagues were gay, I still made an effort to look nice, contrary to what you think women try to look nice for other women and themselves and people in general, not perverts like you.
Quite. Move to ban porn and sexualisation of women then. It's a male driven market, and men profit. Women suffer. Dehumanised at best, murdered at worst.
Unless this entire blog is satire, which it doesn’t appear to be, this is definitely NOT satire. This, along with so many other things discussed here, is extremely problematic. Your defense of this vile behavior makes you just as culpable.
Thanks for reframing it and sharing your perspective.
That's possible, but I wonder if, by being so over-the-top in this narrative, it has the power to break the spell and help people to see just how ridiculous the entire trans narrative really is. Sometimes humour rather than shaming can be much more effective at breaking down people's barriers to understanding. I find shaming makes people dig in their heels and double down on their entrenched beliefs. That said, perhaps we need multiple approaches in order to reach as many sensibilities as we can to counter the trans juggernaut. Just my opinion.
I'm a big fan of ripping the piss. There should be more of it. Have you seen William Ferguson's "Cis Eye for the Trans Guy"? Having said that, he's just so good I found that after falling about laughing at the first couple, I was seriously considering his sensible advice by the third!
“IM SO WORRIED ABOUT GETTING INTO TROUBLE FOR SEXUALISING WOMEN WAH WAH WAH”
How about, instead of bemoaning the fact that you’re scared of being accused of sexualising women … you JUST STOP sexualising women, Nick? It’s not hard, just when you get the urge to stare at women’s bodies just tell yourself “women are people and not sexual objects, meaning it’s wrong for me to stare at them, so I won’t do it.”
Not only is this piece divorced from reality, it’s quite astonishingly badly written and constructed.
The narcissism in this is off the charts. You honestly think women go around looking attractive just to torment overgrown boys like you who can't control their salivary glands when they see cleavage? Demanding that women give up anything YOU find attractive because you can't act like an adult is unadulterated misogyny. Get therapy, and stay away from all females in the meantime.
Oooh nick you're going to be in so much trouble, you cannot confess to noticing other women even have breasts, and no sane man has ever said "nice pudendum" to his wife and lived.
I’M SORRY I HAVE FUCKING NIPPLES, NICK! would you prefer I cut them off??? Should I wear a heavily padded bra to disguise them? Oh, no! Can’t do that! How DARE I do anything that would visually enlarge my…. What did you call them… “large ripe breasts?!?!” 🤮 That would be FaLsE aDvErTiSiNg!
IF YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE LOOKING AT ME GOUGE UOUR OWN EYES OUT!
1 Women have historically been forced to appear attractive for men. In the modern day, women report not being hired or taken seriously etc. if not wearing makeup and looking better than just “well groomed”
2 Men tend to actually be the ones sexualizing women. Historically they always have. Only recently have women started reclaiming their sexuality etc. but they do this for themselves. Those that do it for profit don’t make up even the majority. A celebrity cannot be compared to a random chick in the grocery store in this case. Also, when celebrities try to be more modest, there’s backlash and/or they become unpopular quickly.
3 Some women like to look good for men, many like to look good for themselves. Every woman is an individual though, so it’s inaccurate to say they all care about men. You seem to also forget not all women are even attracted to men.
4 Youre uncomfortable around a pretty lady? Don’t look then. She shouldn’t have to throw her rights away because you’re claiming discomfort over something she’s not doing TO you. You aren’t being forced to swim with a shirt on, nor being deemed a sl*t for wearing shorts or a tank top.
5 you don’t make up all men nor a majority of men.
6 if you’re having to work so hard to not be a cr*ep, then you probably are. No one else has to dedicate their whole day to not s*xualizing women.
7 why would anyone care how you feel when you are going out of your way to assert that women aren’t as important as you are? Make it make sense
8 you s*xualizing women means you’re being objectified? You need a dictionary, my friend
9 you name devices that are advertised yet rarely, if ever, used… I don’t even know what to say about that one.
10 men may just not be as likely to follow rules on the road. I mean obviously each person is different, but anecdotally it seems many I know like to speed or decide not to use the turn signal or occasionally drive high or drunk. Many male Uber drivers I’ve had TEXT while driving 😱 but then some don’t
11 no one is tricking you. You choose to be this way. It’s really sad, man. I hope someday soon you’ll find God in your heart and life. I pray you find the healing you need and learn to appreciate peace and equality etc. genuinely, because I’m sure you’re hurting so deeply 😞
This is hilarious. Buy what's even funnier is that people took you seriously despite your tagline advocating for personal responsibility. If only women had that much power over men. The world would be a very different place.
It's not clearly satire as it is unfortunately too close to how I see men talk about women everyday. When linked to the fact Nick was sacked from his charity role because he called the BLM movement neo-marxism in another rant it lends weight to those who are physically repulsed by this. Unless behind your user name you are actually Nick trying to back out of this absolutely dumpster fire of an article?
Well, I find this thread of comments mostly obnoxious.
Is it really the case that no-one finds any merit in what Nick is trying to talk about here? I'm female and have been on the receiving end of sexism etc. all my life, neverthelss some of the issues raised here are real, I think. I know it myself because I don't do artificial femininity work and hence am considered ugly, I guess - well, I'm older now so that goes without saying. But as a woman (who has been a happy lesbian at various points) I also sometimes find women's dress in public odd and distracting. I also don't want to be confronted with cleavage in the post office or whatever - however, yes, it's true that nipples have a life of their own! Still, let's not jump down the throat of someone who is having the courage to explore something difficult. I imagine he might have hoped to open up the conversation - shall we have the conversation? or just hurl abuse? Is it normal that women use makeup and reveal parts of their bodies? I know there are social advantages from this - social disadvantages actually, to not doing it ... but is it normal? no. It's just our normal and I'm one woman who also wishes that synthetic attractiveness could be toned down and that sexually revealing clothing could be a more private preference between lovers, not for public show. Apart from anything else young people, men and women, could benefit from this. Burkas are extreme - to my perception - however, the valuing of modesty and privacy there is not a bad thing in itself and we could do a secular version. That's not unthinkable.
Seek help
What on earth did you get an MBE for? Does it stand for massive bell end? The problem with men is that they're such perverts they'll see sexuality in anything, my best job was when I worked for an interiors company and all my male colleagues were gay, I still made an effort to look nice, contrary to what you think women try to look nice for other women and themselves and people in general, not perverts like you.
Quite. Move to ban porn and sexualisation of women then. It's a male driven market, and men profit. Women suffer. Dehumanised at best, murdered at worst.
When they dig up all the bodies under his patio, this blog will be 'Exhibit A'.
^ THIS
It's satire people. Get a grip.
Unless this entire blog is satire, which it doesn’t appear to be, this is definitely NOT satire. This, along with so many other things discussed here, is extremely problematic. Your defense of this vile behavior makes you just as culpable.
It doesn't work as satire, as it is too close to the truth.
Thanks for reframing it and sharing your perspective.
That's possible, but I wonder if, by being so over-the-top in this narrative, it has the power to break the spell and help people to see just how ridiculous the entire trans narrative really is. Sometimes humour rather than shaming can be much more effective at breaking down people's barriers to understanding. I find shaming makes people dig in their heels and double down on their entrenched beliefs. That said, perhaps we need multiple approaches in order to reach as many sensibilities as we can to counter the trans juggernaut. Just my opinion.
I'm a big fan of ripping the piss. There should be more of it. Have you seen William Ferguson's "Cis Eye for the Trans Guy"? Having said that, he's just so good I found that after falling about laughing at the first couple, I was seriously considering his sensible advice by the third!
William Ferguson is brilliant.
“IM SO WORRIED ABOUT GETTING INTO TROUBLE FOR SEXUALISING WOMEN WAH WAH WAH”
How about, instead of bemoaning the fact that you’re scared of being accused of sexualising women … you JUST STOP sexualising women, Nick? It’s not hard, just when you get the urge to stare at women’s bodies just tell yourself “women are people and not sexual objects, meaning it’s wrong for me to stare at them, so I won’t do it.”
Not only is this piece divorced from reality, it’s quite astonishingly badly written and constructed.
It's satire people. Get a grip.
Tell me you're an incel without telling me you're an incel.
It's satire people. Get a grip.
What have I just read. Is this satire? Honestly, my god in heaven, if I wrote this with sincerity, I'd walk into the sea. Have some self respect man.
The narcissism in this is off the charts. You honestly think women go around looking attractive just to torment overgrown boys like you who can't control their salivary glands when they see cleavage? Demanding that women give up anything YOU find attractive because you can't act like an adult is unadulterated misogyny. Get therapy, and stay away from all females in the meantime.
Oooh nick you're going to be in so much trouble, you cannot confess to noticing other women even have breasts, and no sane man has ever said "nice pudendum" to his wife and lived.
It's satire people. Get a grip.
You can ask for the cabinet office to consider removing this person's MBE by following this link
https://www.gov.uk/guidance/having-honours-taken-away-forfeiture#examples
I’M SORRY I HAVE FUCKING NIPPLES, NICK! would you prefer I cut them off??? Should I wear a heavily padded bra to disguise them? Oh, no! Can’t do that! How DARE I do anything that would visually enlarge my…. What did you call them… “large ripe breasts?!?!” 🤮 That would be FaLsE aDvErTiSiNg!
IF YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE LOOKING AT ME GOUGE UOUR OWN EYES OUT!
You disgust me.
nobody's forcing you to take your eyes off the road you dumb pervert
The fact that someone can genuinely think this… it just baffles me. I am so hopeful that this is satire, but I know it is likely I’ll be disappointed.
1 Women have historically been forced to appear attractive for men. In the modern day, women report not being hired or taken seriously etc. if not wearing makeup and looking better than just “well groomed”
2 Men tend to actually be the ones sexualizing women. Historically they always have. Only recently have women started reclaiming their sexuality etc. but they do this for themselves. Those that do it for profit don’t make up even the majority. A celebrity cannot be compared to a random chick in the grocery store in this case. Also, when celebrities try to be more modest, there’s backlash and/or they become unpopular quickly.
3 Some women like to look good for men, many like to look good for themselves. Every woman is an individual though, so it’s inaccurate to say they all care about men. You seem to also forget not all women are even attracted to men.
4 Youre uncomfortable around a pretty lady? Don’t look then. She shouldn’t have to throw her rights away because you’re claiming discomfort over something she’s not doing TO you. You aren’t being forced to swim with a shirt on, nor being deemed a sl*t for wearing shorts or a tank top.
5 you don’t make up all men nor a majority of men.
6 if you’re having to work so hard to not be a cr*ep, then you probably are. No one else has to dedicate their whole day to not s*xualizing women.
7 why would anyone care how you feel when you are going out of your way to assert that women aren’t as important as you are? Make it make sense
8 you s*xualizing women means you’re being objectified? You need a dictionary, my friend
9 you name devices that are advertised yet rarely, if ever, used… I don’t even know what to say about that one.
10 men may just not be as likely to follow rules on the road. I mean obviously each person is different, but anecdotally it seems many I know like to speed or decide not to use the turn signal or occasionally drive high or drunk. Many male Uber drivers I’ve had TEXT while driving 😱 but then some don’t
11 no one is tricking you. You choose to be this way. It’s really sad, man. I hope someday soon you’ll find God in your heart and life. I pray you find the healing you need and learn to appreciate peace and equality etc. genuinely, because I’m sure you’re hurting so deeply 😞
Please confirm that this is written as a tongue in cheek article
This is hilarious. Buy what's even funnier is that people took you seriously despite your tagline advocating for personal responsibility. If only women had that much power over men. The world would be a very different place.
It's not clearly satire as it is unfortunately too close to how I see men talk about women everyday. When linked to the fact Nick was sacked from his charity role because he called the BLM movement neo-marxism in another rant it lends weight to those who are physically repulsed by this. Unless behind your user name you are actually Nick trying to back out of this absolutely dumpster fire of an article?
"Who is to blame? The answer is simple. The answer is young beautiful women."
So just being born a cute baby girl and growing into a good-looking adult is now "abuse"?
Well, I find this thread of comments mostly obnoxious.
Is it really the case that no-one finds any merit in what Nick is trying to talk about here? I'm female and have been on the receiving end of sexism etc. all my life, neverthelss some of the issues raised here are real, I think. I know it myself because I don't do artificial femininity work and hence am considered ugly, I guess - well, I'm older now so that goes without saying. But as a woman (who has been a happy lesbian at various points) I also sometimes find women's dress in public odd and distracting. I also don't want to be confronted with cleavage in the post office or whatever - however, yes, it's true that nipples have a life of their own! Still, let's not jump down the throat of someone who is having the courage to explore something difficult. I imagine he might have hoped to open up the conversation - shall we have the conversation? or just hurl abuse? Is it normal that women use makeup and reveal parts of their bodies? I know there are social advantages from this - social disadvantages actually, to not doing it ... but is it normal? no. It's just our normal and I'm one woman who also wishes that synthetic attractiveness could be toned down and that sexually revealing clothing could be a more private preference between lovers, not for public show. Apart from anything else young people, men and women, could benefit from this. Burkas are extreme - to my perception - however, the valuing of modesty and privacy there is not a bad thing in itself and we could do a secular version. That's not unthinkable.