Pandora's Gender Box
First, they changed our language stating it was progressive to be more inclusive – it seemed silly to complain so we let them. New words were invented overnight. We felt under pressure to use them, for if we did not, we were looked down upon, ignored or even reprimanded. When you control language, you control information and the direction of society.
Certain single-sex spaces were deemed problematic for how could we be inclusive if we excluded others who wanted to be included. Society capitulated and specific single-sex spaces were invaded to promote equality. The existing culture of these spaces was rejected as old fashioned and branded unwelcoming – a new culture was imposed.
History was attacked. A version was needed to represent a narrative that never existed involving people who were not worth remembering. We allowed history to be warped, exaggerated, and even invented. We were told that without this new history, the old history never would have taken place. The contribution of this 'new normal' had always existed – but it had been hidden from us.
We were told that society had been created to benefit the privileged and we needed to give specific individuals a special hand-up. For example, in employment to overcome structural barriers. But not for all jobs, only the good ones. Job offers based on merit were deemed not fair anymore – equity was the new word.
The above is not about the ‘trans’ debate or any new woke movement in the UK. It is what men have had to deal with from the 1960s onwards. Men have been putting up with this for over 60 years and on the whole, without hardly ever complaining. Welcome to the world of feminism - a movement that aims to destroy societal norms. Run by a small group of ungrateful women who reject personal responsibility and hate men.
Why am I writing this? What is my point? Am I just a misogynist – probably!
I want women to understand how we got to this place. Where their single-sex spaces are under threat and where female-sport is being infiltrated by male cheats. Men are even nominated for female-only awards and win - this begs the question of why we have separate award categories for women if they only want equality.
The simple answer is that women brought it all upon themselves. They supported feminism and said nothing when the unfairness was levelled at men. An uncomfortable truth – but many men already know this to be true.
Have you ever wondered why every single trans-activist is a self-declared feminist? Every trans-women is a feminist. Everyone who supports male bodies accessing female spaces is a feminist. Every nut-job on social media who thinks they are non-binary, 2-spirited, minor-attracted, possessed, or part-alien are all self-defined feminists! This includes many weak pathetic men – be wary of any man who states he is a feminist.
'Trans' is a natural progression of the feminist movement. It began with 'women are equal to men', then morphed into 'women are better than men'. The next phase was 'women are men' – as they argued that women can do everything a man can do. The final phase is obvious now, 'men are now women'.
The reason some women are unhappy with gender ideology is for the first time it is not in their favour. Sacrilege. Society is not supposed to benefit men for they are evil, toxic and the root of all society's ills. Energy should be used to keep men under control. To do the things women do not want to do – unless they change their minds, then men should not be allowed to do those things either anymore.
The lie feminism peddles is that they only want equal rights, the truth is they want special rights.
A glitch in the Matrix occurred as the anti-men rhetoric morphed into something new and unexpected – a new reality. If men are bad and I think I am a good man, then therefore, I must not be a man. I must be a woman.
Feminists scream about the gender pay gap and the glass ceiling. But never seek equality in terms of early death, suicide, homelessness, incarceration or homicide. When was the last time you saw a campaign recruiting more female refuge collectors? But we are constantly told we need more female CEOs.
If equality is beneficial then where is the campaign for fathers to have a legal say on abortion. Women chose to be mothers, men are told they are going to be fathers. How about making abortion a legally joint decision for married couples? Couples that murder together, stay together!
I do not support gender ideology. I did not when it was harming men, and I do not know when it is openly harming women. I do not believe that men can become women. Just as I do not believe that women can act like men without suffering negative consequences – you cannot be who you are not without harm. Women report much higher levels of unhappiness with life. Women are twice as likely to be using antidepressants. Women end most relationships and marriages. Women attempt suicide at a much higher rate than men – yet men kill themselves 3 times the female rate.
When women invaded male-only spaces it was with cries of equality – but today not all women support the invasion of female spaces by men. When the Boy Scouts were forced to admit girls the feminists celebrated. When men had spaces to escape female company they were deemed sexiest and mostly ended.
I have lost count of the number of times I have been corrected when using words like Chairman, mankind, and manhole cover. I have had to put up with new silly words, such as 'herstory' to mean history from a female perspective. Insulting phrases have passed into everyday use; toxic masculinity, mansplaining, and manspreading.
The vast majority of women who complain about trans inclusion are hypocrites. They accepted the blatant unfairness when they were the beneficiaries of such injustice.
If women want to stop this woke nonsense then they must acknowledge how they got into such a mess. They need to call out feminism. There is no point fighting the symptom of an illness instead of the actual disease. You cannot keep the good bits of a malady and reject the bad - highlight the cancer and cut it all out.
Feminism has created an accountability void within women. Women are never to blame - it is never their fault. They should never be corrected, not even by other women for this is misogyny. Women only exist in two states: perfection or victim.
We see this today when gender critical women accuse trans-women of erasing women and being misogynistic. No one is erasing anyone, no one is being misogynistic. But this has been the battle cry of feminists for decades and they only know this type of response. Blame men. Shout insults. Become hysterical. Accept no responsibility.
I want women to be safe for I am a man, that is one of my innate roles in life. I have a baby granddaughter and want the world to be a better place for her, and her children. I want my wife, my mum, my sister all to be safe from a tiny minority of male perverts.
I want adults to live the life they wish to live, as long as they do not break the law or harm others. I do not have to agree with individual choices or even understand them, for it is none of my business. Trans adults can identify as whoever they wish but they must acknowledge that they cannot change sex – for this is impossible. When it comes to trans children, I want them treated as children. I want them to access mental health support, not pandered to.
Women need to reassess what they mean by equality and what exactly they want from society – having it all is not an option. They need to start to hold other women to account for their actions and words. If not, there is worse to come if we do not put a halt to this. The next battle has already begun and is called Queerness - part of this movement wants to fuck your kids.
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